A Trip to India

Ganges River in Rishikesh

India has been one of the countries on the list to visit for a long time, and the time for that arrived on January 1^st 2018. I always find the first day of the year a great date for traveling to a distant destination. 

I received an invitation from my Indian college friend, Nasser, for his wedding in Hyderabad. The time to the wedding was short and it did not seem possible to make a trip to India! After some consideration, I thought that this is the best opportunity and reason to finally visit this great country.

India is so diverse than the rest of the world, it feels like being on a different planet. There are 1.3 billion colorful people from various religions, cultures, that speak different languages living in one vast country. Rural areas are well populated. The music in the cities are the sounds of the horn of vehicles. What’s fascinating is that they all live in harmony and peace with each other. Very rarely we encountered people loosing their calmness and tranquility. A large portion of the population in India is living in poverty and in my point of view they were all compassionate and accepting of one another. Even though they might be considered poor, but they are still happy!

India is a great example that it is possible to live all together in harmony!

Hyderabad is one of the biggest cities in the southern India and it is the capital of Telangana state. It is known for the “City of Pearls” historically it has been a center for pearl trading. The common language of this state is Telugu and Urdu, most people speak Hindu as well! The most practiced religion in this area is Islam but there are also many Christians and Hindus.

When I arrived in Rajiv Gandhi’s International Airport in Hyderabad and saw the public signs, I was surprised that were four languages on the signs and besides English I also could read the language of Urdu. Urdu’s roots come from Indo Iranian language, and it is a mixture of Hindi and old Farsi!    

Spending time with our Indian friend and his family in their household during the wedding preparations was a great experience. We felt part of the family and were included in all the events. On the Wedding day we first attended the mosque in Muslim traditional clothing, prayers were sung, and vows were signed. After the mosque, the groom’s immediate family went to the bride’s house and the two families celebrated the union. At this point the father of the bride put his daughter's hand in the groom’s and the newlywed separated from her family and went to her new home. This traditional event was an emotional moment of separation and union, some family members were in tears and sad that she was leaving and at the same time they were happy that she was married. The wedding evening ended with extended celebration at the Nasser's house with plenty of delicious Indian food.

The second day was the reception dinner at an outdoor banquet hall. Indian weddings are known to be large, Nasser’s reception was considered relatively small and only 700 people were attended. Here the men wore suits and ties and women wore the traditional colorful dresses. This was a customary Muslim wedding where men and women are usually celebrating separated in different halls. But the night ended up all mixing together. I am grateful for this amazing opportunity to celebrate a wedding in India.  

Wedding day at the Mosque

Wedding day at Bride's house

In our traditional clothing

Wedding Reception

Family picture at the Reception

The air everywhere in India seems hazy and I still have not fully understood why! It’s not the humidity or the pollution. Indeed India has the spiritual energy in its air! Maybe the haziness is the spiritual doubt of our world today!

There are temples all over this country and many people visit them daily. At the temple you give a charity and they color mark your forehead/third eye with a dot, which is a sign that you visited the temple that day!

Nariman and I visited the temple and got marked

After the wedding in Hyderabad, my Chicago/Swedish/Persian college friend, Nariman and I flew to northern India in the foothills of Himalaya to the town of Rishikesh. This town is known as the capital of yoga and meditation in the world. Many yogis and spiritual masters have spent extensive times here, including Ghandi, Yogananda, and they are even believes that Jesus was in this part of India during his teenage life! The city is holy; no animal meat or alcohol is consumed or entered this area. People are calm and tranquil and the vibration of peace is in the atmosphere. The largest river in India and one of the main rivers in the world; the Ganges starts right here in the Himalaya foothills. At it's source the river is crystal clear and pure! Looking at this river from the ashram and walking by it made us so relaxed and calm. Rivers are like veins in our bodies and Ganges is like the Aorta of planet Earth!
Everybody is welcome and free here, you see people from all countries and nations. Even the animals feel free here, Cows, monkeys, and dogs, are roaming on the streets. And no body bothers anybody else, however, the monkeys can be vicious!
One day I was walking around the streets in Ram Jhula and bought some popcorn, as I was eating it I encountered a cow that came towards me and wanted some, he got some popcorn and walked away. The same day I bought fresh made cookies and as I was crossing the walking bridge I realized that a monkey was trying to snatch the cookie bag from me! He was not gentle and made me slightly scared. I had to run away and go around people, scooters, and cows on the narrow bridge to loose him! People were laughing looking at me being chased by a monkey! Afterwards, I thought, It would have been easier to just given him a cookie or two! There are actually street vendors that sell food for the monkeys and cows. Street vendors are common in India, they sell everything you can imagine!

I also have to add that India is not the cleanest country, you have to really watch where you step your feet! Ganges is pure and clean at its source but gets filthy by the time it reaches the Ocean. Perhaps we could compare it to our body, it’s clean and pure at birth and get filled with junk/rubbish throughout life!  
 
In Rishikesh, we resided at an ashram for one week. Ashram is a spiritual hermitage and kind of a monastery. You live here full time and learn how to practice Meditation and yoga daily from 5:30am to 8pm.

The schedule was as following,
Morning bell 5:15am
Morning Meditation 5:30-6:30
Morning Yoga 6:45-8:15
Breakfast 8:30-9
Library 10am
Lunch at Noon
Lecture on philosophy 3:15-4pm
Evening tea 4pm
Evening yoga 4:30 5:45
Evening Meditation 6-7pm
Dinner 7:15
And two days a week there was Musical Holy Hymns from 8-9pm! 

It’s recommended to participate in all classes but not mandatory and you are free to go outside the ashram and visit the area but must be back by 10pm!
All the food served was vegan. The cost of staying in an ashram is around $20 including food, room, and classes. India in general is very cheap!

View of Ganges from Yoga Niketan Ashram at Sunrise

There are many ashrams in Rishikesh area, some small and some bigger ones. Yoga Niketan was in the hills and more deserted with excellent view over the Ganges. There are also other spiritual events outside the Ashram in the city such as the Aarti. This Hindu ritual was held in a couple of various places by the river at sunrise and sunset. The ceremony included singing prayers, offering light and appraisal to the Hindu gods and life, making wishes and light a candle and set it adrift on the river!   

Aarti in Ram Jhula

Aarti in Rishikesh

Aarti Ritual at Sunset

Nariman Making a Wish

Candles floating on Ganges at Sunset

The short period in Rishikesh has helped me to change my life. Yoga and Meditation has become a daily routine in 2018.

Yoga is a form of exercise that helps one with physical and mental balance. It stretches your body and helps the flow of energy in your chakras. This flow of energy supports one during meditation to rise in vibration. Yoga and meditation are supposed to be practiced together!

Meditation helps with calming down and focusing on one self. It is the primary way to connect to the essence within! The more pure and clean the body and mind are, the more effective is meditation! The essence of life is One and it’s in all of us!

I feel more happy, relaxed, and peaceful than ever! Eating healthy food, vegetables, fruits, and nuts in proportion is the daily diet. And consumption of alcoholic beverages and animal products are eliminated from the daily routine. 

I feel light and I am enlightening! I am aware and rising in awareness! I am more clear, compassionate, understanding, accepting, respecting, content, and prosperous than ever!  

I am grateful and humble!

I wish so for all of you!

This road is long, it’s a life journey!

May the new year bring more peace and love to our planet and may the cosmic intelligence fill every human on earth with peace and love!                 

Walking on water (Not)

The Walking Bridge in Laxman Jhula

The Wisdom Tree

Tuk Tuks, common way of transportation

Lakshman Temple

Vegetable Street Vendor in Hyderabad

Pomegranate Bicycle Vendor

Charminar in Hyder Abad

Nizam's Palace and Museum in Hyderabad

Nizam's Palace and Museum in Hyderabad

Ram Jhula

Free Roaming Cows

Food Vendors in Ram Jhula

A view of the Ganges

Woman carrying fire wood by the Ganges

Spectacular nature and hills by Rishikesh

Kids selling wish candles to set a drift on the river

Rafting on Ganges

Sunset in Rishikesh

Happy New Year

Thank You for Reading 

Love from India

Farewell Iran

Tabatabaei House, Kashan

The Iran trip came to an end and time went by so fast. I've traveled within Iran and got to do some things that I like. It feels like I haven't had time to absorb everything yet. I’m glad I take lots of pictures and that I write about my experiences so I can go back to it and relive it.

One amazing experience during this trip, which has been a dream of mine for a long time was to Para glide. Para gliding is flying in a kite off a mountain. We drove 3500ft up the Alborz Mountains on the north side of Tehran and flew down like an eagle with the city below us. I've realized I really enjoy to fly, I must been a bird in the past! I would love to do more Para gliding and get certified. 

Furthermore, I got to do a little project in my parents cottage close to Astaneh Ashrafieh in Gilan. Since I am a water person, I thought our orchard needed a little fountain. A fountain in a little pool would create a sound effect of water running down the stones and it would be a great add on to our home. The fountain project was a good learning experience. I made a 2 feet tall fountain wall with different size river rocks that I collected. This project will be 100% completed next time I visit my parents.

Fin Garden

 I also had the opportunity to give a day visit to "Kashan" with my close friend Peggy. Kashan is located couple hundred kilometers ( 120miles) south of Tehran. Kashan's history goes back to few thousand years as well as many other cities in Iran. Recently in Kashan archeologists found a human mummy, which is estimated to be 7000 years old. This city has many beautiful old architecture. In Fin garden you see water running from a well through creeks among tall pine trees with a classic persian home in the middle of the garden. Kashan is a place worth to see in Iran.

Iran is such a beautiful country with so many resources. Iran lies in a strategic geographical location and it has been the connection between east to west. This land and it's people has been under many different powers and ruled by many different government. This country has been taken advantage off and robbed so many times throughout history. Few weeks ago news released that $3billion is missing in the central bank system. Last week CEOs from 3 major banks resigned. Iran has become an extreme materialistic society. You are judged by who your parents are, what kind of car you are driving, where you live, what you do and how much you own. I have been trying to detach myself from this materialistic world and live only by my needs. I like beautiful things and comfort, but I don't want to find happiness with the things under my possession. I simply have nothing to show, it's just me! In Iran you can't just be you, you have to be somebody else!

People on our planet right now live in controlled societies. We live in a police world and the degree of that is really high on the scale in Iran. Today the situation in the Middle East is in chaos. All the countries in this region are very tense and concerned. In Iran the communication system is controlled. News and social websites like, BBC, Blogspot, and Facebook are filtered. The phone lines between major cities in Iran get interrupted and internet gets shut down during special events. Subconsciously, people in Iran are under constant fear. People are worried about their future and their children's future. People are worried about health care, work, and education. It's kind of part of the culture to be worried.

When you practice compassion, you can feel other people's pain or happiness. In some situations I think I feel worse than the other person since they don't really know in what degree of closed society they live in. For example, when I see a 10 year old girl covered head to toe in black "chador" I feel sorry and wish she could live just a 10 year old child life and had the opportunity to live in a less controlled world. Many people in this society are used to the system and don't realize the little cubical they live in. We all live in a cubical. Our cubical world has different thickness. The walls are very thick in Iran. I hope we can break these walls and let some light in and find peace and freedom. As an Earthling we don't need any borders between the countries on our planet. Everybody should be able to go wherever they like to whenever they like to. When we are not allowed to cross a line then we are more eager to see what's on the other side. I feel bad for many people in Iran and other countries in the world that can't get permission to go to other countries and see the world outside.  When the amount of resources available on our planet is equally distributed between everyone and it’s in harmony with nature then we can live where ever our hearts take us. Then we would not fight, kill, steal, lie, and we all would live better lives in a better world. I am looking forward to that day in my life time.

Love from Iran

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